tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-52687391834174791212024-03-12T18:33:38.300-07:00Someone Spilled Super Glue... ON MY SHOE!!!I'm a Florida girl, born and raised! I've traded my heels and dresses for the life of a Catringa. I am in La Ceiba, Honduras. Of course I miss the Orlando life! BUT... there is nothing that beats the views from this beautiful country. I tried going back home, but I think someone spilled super glue, ON MY SHOES!~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.comBlogger57125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-29762182011001835862016-09-08T08:22:00.000-07:002016-09-08T08:22:05.931-07:00Can I have your order?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I only had three hours left. It would take me three more
hours and I would be home. The last few days had been tense. I was missing a
lot of work that really needed to be getting done. And I was almost back to
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A couple days ago I lost something of value. I am obviously
not caught up in having stuff. That is made apparent by the country I choose to
live in. If I can give up showers and electricity then I can give up everything, right? Sort of. I still have a couple really nice things, mostly jewelry. One of them
happened to be a watch. It was white gold. It had diamonds around the face. I
wear it every day and have worn it every day for YEARS. It goes with
everything. I actually had a pin replaced in the band back in June. Well, it
happened. Some how… Some where… I remember checking the time. I picked some
stuff up. Plopped the stuff down. Five minutes later… I feel naked. I went to
check for the time and it was gone. I was upset, shocked, annoyed, and mad. I felt like someone had taken something from me. It is hard to explain, but like it had been ripped away from me. I
could never replace something that expensive with the current life I live which is simplistic to say the least. I went back
inside… Searched high and low. I went outside. NOTHING. I wish I could tell you
that this story ends with me getting home and finding it. It doesn’t. It is
really gone. I almost cried. Till I remembered it was something that really didn’t
matter because it is really insignificant in the grand scheme of things, but it
does still sting. I don't lose anything except for my phone and car keys. This was so random.</div>
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I made one last attempt and re-traced my steps throughout
the day. I even went back to talk to a manager at one of the establishments. I
left my number asking for her to call if anything was found. She happily agreed and said, “Was it like a Michael Kohrs or something?” I chuckled, “Not really,
it would be a Kohrs on steroids. If it is found and you pick it up, you will
know it is mine. It is unique and nothing close to a category that would be sold here.”
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I left not being able to track time. “Okay God, if it is
gone I am okay with that. Your restoration is better than anything else.”</div>
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Now…<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A couple
days later. I am here. Lost, with no sense of time. Judging by the sun. I put
another watch on. It immediately started to make me itch. I left it on thinking I
would get used to it. My wrist starts to blister. Okay… Off it goes. I am living in the no time zone.</div>
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Yesterday, started really early for me. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was going on tens hours of crazy and
still had three to go. I am buying a bottle of water. Hit the bathroom. Head
for the door.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I walked out beaming
with the confidence of knowing where I am going and what I am doing. I unlock the car, slide in behind the wheel, turn the key…
NOTHING!!! Not a click, not a ding. “God? Are you really looking out for me? I am all alone here. It
would be really nice to have some assistance.” I see some people in the parking
lot and ask for help. No… One lady is afraid I am going to attack her. Another has
some place to be. It is hot. I must be looking quite crazy and gang like. I go back and sit.
“God, if I am supposed to be here for something you really need to show me what
it is. I am tired and want to go home!” </div>
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I see an older couple getting into a van. I ask for help.
The man smiles and says, “that is what I am here for.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They come and jump the car. I am so
grateful and explain how the other people had said no to my plea for assistance. They leave. I drive off.
Not two minutes out and they are pulled over on the side of the road. My heart
beats faster. “Lord? Please tell me that wasn’t a set up! Please tell me what
to do. You order my steps!” I was aware of the sunset behind me. I didn’t want to drive
in the dark by myself, but I was grateful I didn’t have kids. I take a big sigh
and I pull over. “Do you need some help?” He looked up and smiled. To be honest
I wasn’t sure if it was the smile of the wicked witch saying now I am going to get you my pretty or if it was a
genuine smile. Unfortunately you just never know what you are going to
get here in Honduras. This is the country where your own employees order assasins to take you
out. I must have shown my nerves because he said, “Go on, its getting late, we will be fine.” I
drive down a few blocks.</div>
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“Lord, they helped me when nobody else would. You have to
protect me because the least I can do is help them.” I turn around, I park
behind the van. I hear someone praying as I walk past the windows. “Do you know
much about cars? Is it something you can fix?”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He is holding the cable to the accelerator. He can’t get the
van to start. “I have no tools, and I know nothing, but if you need a ride some
place, need a phone, or maybe even if I just sit here so you aren’t all alone.
I will do whatever you need. You helped me, now let me help you.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> The</span> lady a little older than me walks
over to me, “I prayed that He would send us an angel, He sent us you.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Feeling a little relieved at this point
that I wasn’t going to be shoved into the van or tied up and thrown to the side
of the road like so many others I gave her a smile. “He has His angels around
us, and He orders our steps, but we have to listen. Today, I just finally
decided to set my agenda aside and to listen.” </div>
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Long story short, I ended up towing them to a mechanic. I
don’t know how I found a mechanic, but I did. He ordered my steps and lead me down the path. We said our
goodbyes and I was now leaving when I should have been arriving.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was okay… I couldn’t really keep
track of the time anyways, right? Had my watch been on… I never would have
helped. When I am in public I tend to hide my phone so it doesn’t draw extra
attention so I wasn't checking the hour. God knew. Had I been with my kids, I never would have risked helping. God knew.</div>
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I can’t say what could have happened. I don’t know what He
protected both vehicles from, but I am sure it was something. He has His reasons. Both vehicle
issues were simple fixes. Literally, just a matter of having the right tool on
hand. To be honest, I get so caught up in the time or the loss of time and
where it is I need to be or what it is that I need to be doing. Many times I
miss all of the little miracles that are around me.</div>
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So I have a new challenge. Not just for me, but I am sure it
applies to you too. “God, can I have your order?” I don’t always want it, but I
know it is best.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Father, lead me,
guide me, direct me, You order my steps today and every day. Keep me from
distractions and frustrations of the loss of time. Remind me that You are the
Lord of all. And the Lord of all is either Lord of EVERYTHING or Lord of
nothing. Today, I give you EVERYTHING!”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Everything! Even my silly little watch, the time keeper. He is the real time keeper anyways. AND I know
that in one second everything can change so the reality is that watching the
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Giving everything to His order… Submitting entirely to His
plan. That is risky business. It is easy to say it. Easy to start to do it. It
is so hard to follow through. We can do this! His plans. His will. Take His order. Follow His lead. We can do this together!</div>
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~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-73671579178111403412016-08-25T12:12:00.001-07:002016-08-25T12:12:53.600-07:00No Judgement, Just help<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
What is that smell? The wind blows and with it is more than the normal garbage particles wafting in the wind. Today... Its more bitter. I have smelled it before, but can't place my finger on it.<br />
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Another casualty of no education, poverty, and abuse. Another baby was left rotting in garbage. This is now normal. It used to bring me to tears. Now... I just wonder when it will stop and how. Who is going to step up and intervene.<br />
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There are hundreds of people around the world that want to adopt... And others due to severe circumstances... They throw their babies away.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">This is the sixth baby I have been told about this month.<br />I can't imagine how many more are being missed.</td></tr>
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If you had been gang raped would you want it?<br />
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If you had been the girl in the cage that was sold out to the higher bidder and got pregnant because of it... Would you want it?<br />
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If you, had been the child kidnapped as you walked home from grinding the corn to make the tortillas.<br />
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If you had been daddy's little princess, but the game was taken just a bit too far.<br />
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What if it was you that was leaving your high school prom and the head of the neighborhood game caught a glimpse of your beauty and decided to take you home and leave you cuffed until you no longer serve a purpose.<br />
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Would you want it? In the midst of the violence and when your spirit has been stripped from you are you going to desire the special gift that the lady in church calls a blessing from God? Or would it be like the torture package sent to you from the depths of Hell?<br />
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Who is going to help? When? How?<br />
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They don't need someone to judge them. They need someone to intervene and help.<br />
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~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-74427587155079953522016-08-19T12:14:00.000-07:002016-08-19T12:19:14.081-07:00Free Sex...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Not for you. Don't get excited. Got you to come to the page, didn't I?<br />
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This week I was reading news articles with highlights from Honduras. One of the articles was addressing the massage houses that are overwhelming our cities and towns. The police have finally decided to start combatting this homes that are known for providing happy endings. You thought that was just happening in the Orient? Don't be so naive.<br />
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The recent raid included children between ages of 6 and 12. Free sex. You give it away. A normal prostitute has a price that they receive though they more than likely pay a fee to their boss man. In this home the kids receive what? The moms sell their children into these homes. The kids in return are housed. Kept alive. They have food and a roof. Oh and abuse. You do that the way they want it OR ELSE... Free sex... Actually they are paying a high price to give it away.<br />
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If that is what is taught to these kids. And we are in the business of trying to help heal their innocent bodies and minds... HOW??? HOW will they ever be able to function as a normal child? They will never be able to play with Barbies or G.I.Joes in a normal fashion again. What they were made to do that they fought to not participate in becomes something like a drug that they begin to crave. Is there any hope for normalcy in their lives again?<br />
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All of the psychological help in the world cannot erase the things they experienced and suffered through. Some of the stories have me... Me... The girl that is numb to it all because it is all normal... It just took it to another level and has me speechless. The things these children are experiencing at such a young age is heart breaking. I pray for the home that receives these kids. They are going to have a lot of work ahead of them. The rage they will experience. The depression and depths of sorrow to overcome.<br />
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That brings me to another point. When will the death penalty be permitted in this country so infiltrated with murder and violence!!!??<br />
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I want revenge. I want that little girl. I want to hold her and brush her hair and teach her that there is more to life. I want to prove that not everyone is going to wish that lifestyle upon her. She needs someone to come in with love. Someone to teach her there is a different life. Someone to love her through all her nasties that she will now be trying on kids in school. Starting school will be a huge difference for her.<br />
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She has value! She is worth something more than just her body and the pleasure someone can get from her.<br />
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In these thoughts I have recognized that these same things are values I am trying to teach to my own daughter. In a world where you are recognized for your beauty, your body, or your moves... It is in almost every commercial on TV. It is re-enforced by music videos. We even re-enforce it in our own homes. When is the last time that you told your little girl she was beautiful when she woke up in the morning? Does she only hear those words when she is dressed up? What do you say about yourself in front of her? I am one of the worst at saying "I look gross!" or "Don't touch me, I smell." One thing I have learned from stinky indians is they all seem to have lovers. The stench released from beneath the pits is of no importance. That is so contrary to our culture. I think pheromones attracting the opposite sex is a line of bologna. There is no way that smell would ever cause me to desire a man.<br />
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Enough of a rant for today. Go love somebody just because of who they are. Not because of how they look or how they make you feel. Love them because it was a command. Loving the least of these isn't something that is always easy. Heck, I don't even know if I love my own kids when I find a bag of flour has exploded all over my kitchen floor or have that red juice spilled all over my nice clean white pants. It is definitely a choice. No matter who it is, how they smell, or what they do.<br />
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I choose to love you! I choose to love her too! Sex not needed. All kids are worth loving.</div>
~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-20003258197667535042016-08-11T16:11:00.001-07:002016-08-11T16:11:07.170-07:00RAW<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Raw. I don't know how to describe everything I am feeling. So let me say right now, this is raw. This is real. This is what I am feeling.<br />
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Don't be offended by anything you will read.<br />
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Raw. Think of raw meat. Cold. Nasty. Bloody. It is the real deal before all the seasoning and cooking to make it a wonderful masterpiece. Just know... That is what you are getting ready to read.<br />
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I am struggling with complete surrender. I can give it all up. I can trust. I can believe. I have more faith the anybody that is sitting next to me. And for some reason... right now... I just don't know what is going on. I am not sure where we are. Where we are going. What we are doing.<br />
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Verification: I know that I am surround by a hundred kids and I am dedicated to making sure they succeed at life. And that is about all that I know.<br />
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Are you dedicated to them? Are you dedicated to me? Is this blog going to scare you away? Maybe. The sad thing is I am writing because I need back up and I am at the end of my rope. So can you maybe for a day overlook my cruel or offensive writing and try to see my real heart.<br />
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I am tired. I am scared. I am exhausted. I am feeling as abandoned as every child in our home and that is just where it all is. I know God is there. I know that He cares more than you or I, but in the midst of my current reality His timing and His caring seems really off. (I don't need you to write me a mini sermon explaining why this comment is insane, I already know.) Sometimes... it just doesn't feel like it. And that is going to have to be okay.<br />
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I have abused children experimenting with abusing others. I have rape victims with the desire for more of their past so they are escaping at night with men from the military. I have a monthly budget that is dwindling each month in a ministry that just keeps expanding as our children and monthly commitments continue to grow to support them on their journey. I have uneducated staff that when given time and materials to grow don't care to apply it or use it, they continuously ignore the help offered and just look for a paycheck. I have teams that hear needs of the kids and projects, but then just return home and kind of forget about us as the return to their luxuries. I have volunteers that are eager to help and assist, but don't speak the language and having to be a translator is exhausting when heaped on top of the responsibility pile. I have teachers with credential, but lack the passion and have us working overtime in the homes to try and keep the kids on track without having actually been taught. And I am surrounded by a community that is perverted and dangerous and at the end of the day looks for how they can benefit from us instead of trying to help or assist. I have human fecal matter being thrown over the wall onto the home and kids because a village is mad I won't give the front of our property to them for a family to live on. And I have to stare at a half naked woman crying on the corner of the road while watching the police laugh at her and fear stopping to help because of retaliation when I desperately want to just sweep her off her feet and take her home.<br />
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So where is God in all of this?<br />
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I know. He is right here. I know. He is still saying 'TRUST ME!" I don't doubt that part for a second. It is still a very lonely place to be standing in right now. As the rain pours down, my tears follow.<br />
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I hear Him. But do you know the fear that would surround you in the midst of the howling winds while standing in a tornado... That gripping, stifling, hopeless feeling... Fear. I hear Him so loudly saying "Trust me." But the fear of what I am seeing has me almost paralyzed.<br />
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I am trusting. I am believing. I can't see how or when. All I see is darkness. I hear the truth, but I am in need of some serious back up.<br />
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The end of school is coming and with it is a lot of extra expenses. That is November. Right behind it comes December.<br />
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We are in need of some serious financial commitments. Our next home is very close to being able to open down stairs, but I can't even attempt to accept kids or open until I get some monthly supporters to cover what we already have going. I need a couple staff members just to cover employees during their time off. Full time care of these children is a heavy burden and it is extremely exhausting. Yet, I can't hire anybody else right now. I need a math and English teacher for our school, but need an extra $600 a month before they will consider working for us because bi-lingual teachers are worth more money. I have a list of improvements that we would really like to see completed in the near future. I am looking at $1,800 in car repairs just for this month. Yesterday, I had to spend 8,300 Lempiras in repairs for one of the homes. I had another refrigerator blow out this month and have called the repair man twice a day for three weeks because it is supposed to be under warranty and it looks like he is waiting for the warranty to expire before he helps.<br />
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When I said raw... I was honest. This is the raw look at the behind the scenes stress that I am feeling. I need help. I need Spiritual back up. I need some serious prayer. I need financial assistance. I know that everybody goes through their own personal battles. I know that many of you are dealing with back the school costs and are already stretched to the max. But if every person that read this sent $10, it would really help ease the burden. I am making our needs known and praying for blessings. I am trusting and believing for miracles.<br />
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I know that God has brought these children here for a reason. I know that He has a greater purpose <br />
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than I could ever imagine. This past week as I stared at Olivia (Lil' Bit), I remember making a promise to her just over a year ago. When I brought her home I promised to give my all and that I would never abandon her. I made a commitment to watch her grow wherever she goes. With every child that has come in I have made that same commitment. No matter how bad it looks. No matter how much rice and beans we have to eat. I will never give up.<br />
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When you read in Hebrews, "I will never leave you nor forsake you" it is telling us not to be anxious. Our commitments to God will be rewarded. I made a commitment to God a long time ago to do what I am doing. I don't have to worry. Out of that commitment, I made a pact to forever do everything within my hands for these kids. I don't have to worry.<br />
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You know, further in the same chapter of Hebrews it is promised that He will equip (in Greek it states fully provide) and to bear with it. (Bear = Patience).<br />
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So I made our needs known. Now I just have to wait.<br />
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What are you stressing over? What are you anxious to see happen? Be patient. When it lines up with His plan all you have to do is wait. His timing doesn't ever seem right when we are in the midst of the stress. Actually, His timing seems awful. It gives me wrinkles and silver streaks on my head. The beauty of it all is His timing is always perfect and always leaves me awestruck. For those that can help in some way you can head over to <a href="http://www.odm.us.org/" target="_blank">Open Door Ministries</a> (click to donate). For those that need the same prayer of patience and are waiting for God to perform, lets pray together! There is power in numbers.</div>
~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-87127099055525054312016-06-02T13:16:00.001-07:002016-06-02T13:16:32.561-07:00Battles With The Past<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
My silence should not fool you. If you only knew half of what was going on you would be exhausted. Thinking about it gives me a migraine and reminds me how much I hate what I do at the end of SO many days. This bitter sweet relationship with these kids and the passion that burns frequently has me sick by days end.<br />
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This week I had to face a bitter reality from my past. I had a set of kids that came to live with us with their mom when they were younger. They continued to be abused while under our care to the extent that one day I filed papers with an attorney, took the kids to the forensic department at the municipality, removed them from their mom and kicked her off property. This was one of the hardest things I have ever faced. A girl. A lonely girl. Who just yearned to be loved and accepted and needed an education. I knew exactly what she needed. I just couldn't provide it and allow the cycle of abuse to continue.<br />
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Fast forward a year later and I receive a document that a judge is ordering the mom to take custody of the kids.<br />
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The judge happened to be a local acquaintance that I had a previous history with. Obviously I wasn't going to accept a document. I went to her and asked why. "My term is ending I have to close out all of my files. We don't have the staff to investigate. She comes in crying every week. I just need to close it all out. I am moving to a new city." SERIOUSLY!?! You need to remove a stack of papers so you don't even look at the history of abuse??? The history of pictures??? The reports on the refusal of psychological help??? The fact that she has no home, no job, and can't feed herself??? My heart <br />
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crumbled. I couldn't deliver the kids. (This is normal. I always send a staff member so I don't have to cry in public. I grieve for a few days in private and pop back.) I felt helpless when it was done and over. This was just the first time I would face a situation like this. It turns out that there have been many days that I come home wondering if it is worth my energy to try and protect these kids when in the end a judge can say they are going to live some place else. No investigation. No questions asked. Just a signature on the paper without asking for the file folder with the history that the document will soon be placed inside of. I wish there was an office to report the awful and horrible work that this countries government officials, but the truth is that even in the upper ranks finding a person that actually cares is not common. They can be found, but the positions of power are always held by some political puppet. <br />
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Hence the reason I want to be the First Lady of Honduras! I will re-marry if it gets me the position. Just Kidding!!! Or am I? I secretly pray that a single man is voted into office and I can snag the position I desire and take Nilsson along as the pink house mascot. (We don't have a White House. We have a big pink building. Think rose petal pink, Not pep-bismol Mom!)<br />
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This week a couple new faces showed up at our feeding station. It has been a few years since I have seen them, but very little has changed. I think even their height is the same. Which is sad. My heart is over joyed to have them back in our lives even on a small level. I am so grateful that we have the feeding station to be able to help them out and even keep track of them while they are around. I can't believe that after so much time has passed they can still be picked out of a crowd. (They all typically look alike!) AND you know the best part? They have on clothes and shoes!!! Yay God! I say all of that to say this... Never stop praying for my kids. The current ones. The lost runaways. The few that have been sent away. My heart has a place for every one of them. I still lose sleep praying for my Fabiola's and Esther's. I keep in touch with the few that I can, but for those that I have lost... I just pray. The most strategic thing you can do for this ministry aside from financial support for the projects is prayer! And from this little heart of mine, there is nothing better than seeing one of the babies that I thought I had lost forever. My tears, for now, are from an overwhelming joy!!<br />
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Welcome Back Home Sweet Peas!!!! You have been missed!<br />
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~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-27794704138149599372016-05-12T08:33:00.003-07:002016-05-12T08:34:28.285-07:00Are you there mom?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Mothers Day brings a mix of emotions depending on who you are and where you are at on your life journey.<br />
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Mothers Day... It is like most other holidays for me. Stressful.<br />
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It is a time when most of my kids get emotional. When I get emotional. When I try and over do another project to make sure my house moms feel extra special on a day they don't get to share with their family because I need them to work. A day of resentment. Frustration. Angst. Sorrow.<br />
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A day in the life of one of my kids doesn't begin to open your eyes to everything they go through.<br />
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A life of abuse, but when all you know is abuse it is what you want. And on mothers day just like a healthy child you want to be with your maternal mom.<br />
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I had planned a beautiful lunch. I made every detail special and coordinated it all to go perfectly down to the games we would play as a family. Part of the day was only for my house moms. Part of the day for my teen moms. Part of the day for a big family celebration.<br />
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As one of my moms walked in I noticed something was different. I was so focussed on the details of the day that I never took the time to ask. Then during a time that I had set apart to ask my moms how they were and what they needed from me so they could be more efficient, she broke down. "I didn't call you because I knew you were busy. She ran away. She hugged us. She gave me my mothers day card. She disappeared." I was informed that one of my little girls ran away. She is eight. She is used to the streets. She is used to abuse. My reply? "Don't worry. She will be back. I am sure she wants to find her real mom for mothers day. Just wait."<br />
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Yesterday... They brought her home. Within four days she was beaten and bruised. Her hair has been chopped off. The joy we had seen dancing in her eyes has been stripped once again. I ache wondering what she experienced the last few days. With time, she will talk. For now, I wonder.<br />
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I wonder why she chose that life style to run back to. I know it is a cycle of abuse. I know she will desire parts of her past life until she is fully healed. I wish we hadn't taken three steps backwards after just starting to move forward. I believe God will heal her with time.<br />
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The part that hurts me the most is knowing she left see if a mom was still there. A mom who would hug her the way her tia hugs her in our homes. She left hoping mom would sit and listen. She left wanting a love that is best shown by a mom, but she doesn't realize her mom is sick and will never be able to provide that love. Unless... Unless she receives it first from God.<br />
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I am learning more each day how much God existence is like a light house and He guides us and lights the path, but we have to set our own course. These kids know the way. We are being used as a light house, but I cannot force any of them to follow the path before them. I can pray. I can wish. I can desire. I can lead. Even at eight years old... they have to decide.<br />
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They decide. In the midst of confusion. During the blurs of abuse. The stress of change. They decide.<br />
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I am just now coming to reality and recognizing they will forever wonder, "are you there mom?"<br />
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"These people tell me of a love so deep. A love so strong. And it comes through people I barely even know. If that is true then why? Why don't you love me the way they love me? Why don't you show me? Why do you hurt me? How can they be there for me even when you are not?"<br />
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In the midst of Mothers Day runaways and chaos I found a moment to chat with one of our oldest girls. She came when she was 16. She will be 26 this year. She is working for us and still studying in high school. I asked her how she felt when she came into the house that she one time lived in. Her reply left me kind of surprised. "Mama Lore, how do you feel when you go home to the States and walk in and see Mama Penny? I think I feel like that, but better. I knew how bad it once was and I know how good I feel here. This is my home. I find peace and happiness here." She once tried to run away. She thought about ways to escape. She learned, with time, where God placed family, hope, and a future. She took advantage of it.<br />
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I hope that all of our kids eventually follow in her foot steps. I know we will lose some along the way. For now we make sure that seeds are being planted and one day they will recognize a place they could call home and where they found a love like no other. And when they ask, "Are you there?" A response will surely be heard.<br />
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~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-28836942760003614892016-04-27T07:54:00.001-07:002016-04-27T07:54:40.961-07:00Something New!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Today I woke up at 4 am. I couldn't sleep. I don't know if it was nerves or excitement.<br />
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Today, is a new day! Today I get to pick up our first Mission Nanny! I have had Nanny McPhee here for short spurts of time, but the problem is she thinks I don't need her and she leaves. Nanny McPhee is irreplaceable to me. She keeps me sane. She is family. She is perfect with the kids. She helps keep me organized. She helps me on the computer. She shares her wisdom and reminds me where to find my peace each day. BUT... Nanny McPhee thought she was better used in other areas so for a long time I have been waiting and searching for a mission nanny!<br />
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Over the last year we had several responses, but the dates didn't work. Or something always affected the final decision and Honduras ended up not being on their list. TILL NOW!!!!!!!! Today I get to pick up our own interim nanny. She will be here until she starts school again. We are elated! I am so excited that my kids will have to endure their last eight hours in a car waiting for mom to complete all of her jobs. I am excited that maybe I can sit with a staff member for the first time and not have one of my own kids on my lap. I am excited that bringing home the extra babies will be a shared burden. I am excited that when I can't pick up Jayden from school and he sits waiting for me for three hours that someone else can go get him. OR that I can leave him behind and not make him miss class so I can try and get my projects finished. I am super excited that for the first time maybe someone else can see that my kids haven't had lunch before it is 3:30 in the afternoon.<br />
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Please pray that she can deal with the heat, lack of water, and power outages that frequent our lives. Pray that she is patient with me and can read between the lines when I stop talking mid sentence to run off and handle something else. Pray that she can deal with my crazy family and our wild stylings. Pray that she stays healthy while she is here. Pray for her blessings to be a torrential down pour as a reward for her sacrifice. Pray for me to be sensitive to her and her needs while she is here and not to abuse her.<br />
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Maybe we can actually have a date night!?!</div>
~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-25088395862186777102016-04-26T07:54:00.000-07:002016-04-26T07:54:33.070-07:00Random Thoughts<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Have you ever noticed how negativity tends to be more attractive than positivity?<br />
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1. The bad kids get more attention. (Yes, because he needs more correction. Just get my point, k?)<br />
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2. The sex title gets more reads.<br />
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3. The ass blog gets the most feedback. (Forget the 100 before it full of love, hope, thanks, grace.)<br />
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4. Target gets the most comments in your newsfeed.<br />
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Why can't people be supportive in the good? Why is it so hard for us to join good causes, but so easy to comment when something makes us angry?<br />
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Why is it so easy to criticize loved ones and so hard to be a genuine encouragement?<br />
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I know I am not the only one that thinks these things. It is human nature. It is easier to cut someone down in frustration and not build them up.<br />
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Why is it so hard to get people to push a good cause forward, but so easy for the negative news to spread like wild fire.</div>
~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-74286408167669824662016-04-22T13:21:00.000-07:002016-04-22T13:21:44.256-07:00Half-Assed<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I said it. I never was allowed to say these things when I
grew up. There were two phrases that my grandma used, but we could not whisper
them.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>First there was the smart
ass.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And that smart ass probably
got in trouble for doing something half-assed (the other word I dare not whisper.) I never understood what those
phrases had to do with anything. I didn't really think about it until I used that word today. So silly me… I went to wiki-pedia.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I didn’t want to just assume. Assuming
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<b><span style="color: #262626; font-family: "georgia"; font-size: 15.0pt;">half-assed; half-arsed <i>adjective</i>
1</span></b><span style="color: #262626; font-family: "georgia"; font-size: 15.0pt;"> inferior, unsatisfactory, incompetent <i>US, 1865</i>. <b>2</b>
incomplete, not serious, half-hearted <i>US, 1933 -</i><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> A SPECIAL t</span>hank you to the New
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you living? Are you full-heartedly committed to doing things in life? Or are
you just half-assing it? (Side Note: I would really like to use a term whole-assed too, but it just doesn’t sound right!)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; mso-bidi-font-family: Georgia; mso-bidi-font-size: 15.0pt; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">At work? At home? On the
mission field?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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to be as help, isn’t really helping me. Can you relate?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; mso-bidi-font-family: Georgia; mso-bidi-font-size: 15.0pt; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">I really needed to get some
work done. So Mr. Wonderful stayed home to help with the kids. However, staying
home<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>meant asking me to back up
his phone. Making food because someone was hungry. Him taking the kids outside
to play and after two minutes calling me to come get the baby. After five
minutes calling for me because Jayden was thirsty. Twenty minutes later<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>finding that the baby I had recently walked inside had a diaper that was
soaked with water and exploded all over the floor that I got up
early to clean. Help? Did you say help? It would be easier for me to lock them
in their rooms so they can play and so I can focus! But… He tried to help! I
recognize the effort orrrr lack there of. His help was not the kind of help that I was desperately seeking in the moment.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; mso-bidi-font-family: Georgia; mso-bidi-font-size: 15.0pt; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">At work? What did you only
spend half the time doing because you were too busy on Facebook? Everyday I
have staff members that I have literally been requesting things from since
October not hand in the completed project, but by golly there are ten new posts on Facebook and a hundred new pictures being sent to all of the gringos that come
to visit. Where are the reports? Why were the forms not filled out properly for
the government? Why did you not make that meeting? Did you forget you were supposed to be working? Why didn't the guys have the materials on time so they could work? And that leads me to this... How did you let your company down today? Are you reading this when you should be working? Please, don't let me be your distraction. My tangents can wait until your break.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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field. If you want to know the honest truth, ask the missionary that you support
to tell you.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> We all talk about it when you all go home. </span>Short term groups are
known for coming in, blowing up, and taking off. Are they beneficial? YES! Do
we love to host them? YES!!! But do they many times create more work and cause
more damage? YES!!!!!!! Could they improve their actions and accomplish more thus providing more support to the missionary? YES!!!!!!!!!!! Just ask us how!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; mso-bidi-font-family: Georgia; mso-bidi-font-size: 15.0pt; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">Short termers come in and throw around
money to staff and/or the people receiving the ministry causing the people supported by the ministry to get delusional
thinking every American has the money and I should be paying them more and they immediately forget every blessing received by the ministry up until this point. The new car. The $1,500 for the surgery. The old car repairs. The no living expenses all free living plus an income. Yea... All of that! It gets forgotten. Like it never happened.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; mso-bidi-font-family: Georgia; mso-bidi-font-size: 15.0pt; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">Teams are known for bringing
down limited budgets to work with and maybe not being able to have the funding
or time to complete a task, but they attempt it anyway. Leaving messes for the
people on the ground to clean up. Starting projects with outsiders that then
look to the on the ground people to follow through when maybe we had no clue
there was even a contract.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Or
sending and supporting a family that is in need, but privately we (the on the grounders) know the true need
is because of their own foolish ways of not picking up the fishing pole to fish
so we (the on the grounders) have moved our resources to an area that is known to have more fertile
soil. This isn't to be mean. Missionaries are not picky or selfish people. We are the ones that really will go hungry to make sure the needy are fed. We see the real need behind the smoke screens that the homeless kid on the corner begging is showing you. (His mom is sitting there behind him in the parking lot or maybe that little boy just ran away from another orphanage and is begging just so he can feed his drug addiction.) <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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because as humans we don’t have respect for what is going on behind the scenes.
Sometimes… It is because deep deep down we don’t truly consider anybody else, but ourselves.</span><span style="color: #262626;"> </span><span style="color: #262626;">Did you give because you have a heart
that is desiring to meet the need or was it to make yourself feel good and ease
your conscience? Not that both are not desired.</span><span style="color: #262626;"> </span><span style="color: #262626;">We need both types of givers. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #262626;">Do you know how much a
ministry, any ministry would thrive if more than 20% of the givers actually
cared about the true needs and tried to meet them? Have you asked your pastor what your church NEEDS and rallied behind him to help accomplish it? I am mean really hear the desires in your core and ask to better understand so you can be a bigger part and meet the larger need! Not the silly, quick, easy, superficial so I can pat myself on the back for helping need. I mean the one that aches you to finish and that is a real sacrifice for you to make because just like you there are a thousand others that kind of want to help if they don't have to sweat or bleed. </span><span style="color: #262626;">How would your own church
grow if more than 20% of the congregation started to give back with their time and resources? How would
your business and workplace blossom if more than 20% of the staff gave 100% of
an effort every day?</span><span style="color: #262626;"> </span><span style="color: #262626;">This is a
hard thing to ask, but how would your own family be affected if when you came
home at the end of a long day and actually connected with them for more than
just fifteen minutes before bed? And what about a day of no tv? WAIT!!! That means no news!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #262626;">What if every church member cared as much for the church as the head pastor? What if every employee cared as much about the business and its customers as the business owner? And what if every member of the family cared as much about how clean the house stays as the one that cleaned it?</span><br />
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my phone and email.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Guess what I
do when I can’t sleep? Guess what I do when I am stressed and want to
disconnect? What is right beside me as I make dinner?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Technology has ruined us in many ways. There are great
benefits to being able to live around the world and in seconds receive a
picture of a loved one or even video chat. There are also great threats to our
success as a human race; as a parent, a spouse, a minister, an employee, or
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~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-87921243786785267892016-04-02T12:12:00.002-07:002016-04-02T12:16:07.793-07:00Go Ye... Donde?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
You remember the feeling you felt as you walked down the hall in high school for the first time? The way your hands and knees trembled. The feeling that ached in the pit of your stomach as you were called up front for something by the homeroom teacher. Of the uncomfortable and awkward stress that engulfed every inch of your being as you sat in the huge lunch room. For those that went to a small school, maybe it wasn't like that. It was easy for me to be a big fish in my small private school. The year I went from a school of 200 to 2,000, something changed. I became insecure. What is funny about that is the way that every single one of those 2,000 kids had those moments, but rarely was it spoken about.<br />
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As as adult... Maybe because of random experiences, I developed more of an I don't really care mentality. (Most of the time that is.) If you want to try and make me care then I find myself pushing myself away from you.<br />
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If you are a valued member of my life then I respect your thoughts and opinions. I will share information with you. If you are not one of these members and try to force your opinion on me I become cold or just neglect to value what I hear. There is nothing wrong with this. I ask for advice from those I respect. I do not give respect nor do I value advice from those who have not earned it.<br />
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That is normal.<br />
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Respect is earned. Respect is to be valued. Respect is not demanded or commanded. It takes playing a part in the lives of the people around you.<br />
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This is so true in leadership. A true leader will fight with you. A true leader pauses to see what the hold up is on their teams and evaluating resolutions and working through to the finish line together. Osea (Like), Leading by example.<br />
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I am often dumbfounded by the way visitors tend to give opinions and thoughts on missions never having lived on the mission field, or lived in Honduras, or worked with abused children. I sometimes start to feel the high school intimidation consuming my body, then I quickly remind myself that I am starting to act like a child again and push myself beyond that moment. The problem really isn't me here. How do I know this? Because the criticism would be followed up by assistance to accomplish the correction if the criticism actually came from a person of value (in the instance a leader). And a true leader or person of value would not try to make you feel nor desire for you to feel the awkward intimidation.<br />
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Everyone has felt that intimidation. All of us have experienced the awkward feeling of not measuring up and not having value. From the Class Clown to Mr. Popularity. The difference is how we react. Do we embrace reality and press in so we can move forward? Or do we give up and back away?<br />
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I am trying to teach my son to be a little like Simba and "laugh at the face of danger." In other words push through uncomfortable moments and recognize value in the people around him. This is hard. So much of the confidence he will one day have comes with time. It comes with maturity. There is part of him that recognizes when he is acting shy. He is learning. He now reports when he is feeling this way. Teaching him to press in, pass it to the side, and do what it is he came to do is complicated. Little by little, we can get there.<br />
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Telling him these things is great. It doesn't mean much though. Living by example, well...<br />
The other day I had to run for a meeting. I tried on several outfits. I fixed my hair and face four times. (I didn't look any better than before I started.) Jayden asked me why I was being silly. I recognized that I had regressed all the way back to my childhood. I had to be honest. "Jayden, I think I am just uncomfortable because I know they will be pretty. They will be professional. They will be prepared." I was coming from cleaning up baby poop and dealing with high school problems because one of our kids isn't doing very well in math. I didn't feel like I could put on a different hat to go meet with an attorney in the moment. The funny thing is that the attorney was asking to meet me because they needed help with a case. It had nothing to do with something on my end it was them seeking something from me. Isn't it funny how quickly we get consumed and start to feel inferior?<br />
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I am recognizing more and more the importance of not just suggesting... Not just speaking... But actually being the example. It is one thing to have the ideas. It is another to take the time to implement them help change the action.<br />
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For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. (Thank you Mr. Warren! This and your talk about absolute power follow me every where!)<br />
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If I want to cause a positive reaction, I have to create and be part of the positive action.<br />
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Whether it be in motivating my child to change or motivating staff to move in a different direction. I can't expect an outcome if I am not willing to be part of the movement. What are you willing to invest to be part of the change? What is it that you don't like and why? How are you going to help change it? Words... they are just words. Change needs action! Action not hesitant because of intimidation.<br />
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In the last two years we have been surrounded by some really amazing churches. They may not have all the money in the world to help accomplish and change everything in the moment. BUT they have the hearts. Their people are full of love and compassion. They recognize the imperfection amongst all of us. They see our hearts are trying. Their pastors and staff have offered so much guidance and encouragement. They don't say "Hey! You guys have it all together!" NOPE!!!! They do say, "Keep going. You will get there! Keep growing!" Then they help us grow. One block and bag of cement at a time. I learn so much about leadership by watching them lead. Watching their honesty. Hearing their stories. It is refreshing.<br />
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They have taught me that change needs action and it doesn't happen because you order it to. Unfortunately, Genesis has God resting on the 7th day and never saying that He empowered us to speak new change into being without actually becoming the change. In fact, I think when Jesus came into play it became more of an example than ever of the way we are supposed to be. Read that again. The way we are supposed to "BE." He is our example to follow. He became the change. Touching one life at a time. He didn't save everyone. He did save the few that He could. AND Other than demanding illness to leave and calling down miracles... where is there a story about Him commanding anybody into action? One exception, "GO YE!" He commanded us. Not some of us. He commanded all of us to take part in this change. High school intimidation step aside... Now Just GO! Take action! Be that change!<br />
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Scary? Yes, I know. One step in front of the other. Start now. Don't go buy that Starbucks! Stick that $5 aside to make a change some how, some way... You doing it. You sending someone to do it. Or you sending it to someone that is already doing it. You have the power. Start that mission or support that mission.<br />
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I, like many others, am running on very little sleep. I have a new born. She isn't mine. Can I be honest? I don't even want her. I am tired of raising kids. I know that nobody else seems to care for babies the way my momma would and it disgusts me so I sacrifice and keep her with me. I could just pay someone to be a nanny, but we don't have enough funding. I just had to turn away five kids last night. I can't take on any more kids. I am out of beds. I have two kids sleeping on the floor. I had to tell five kids between the ages of four and eleven that I could not take them home with me. I left them sleeping in the holding cell at the police station. I am trying to do all that I can to impact the lives of the kids that surround me. I need help. I need funds. I need people!<br />
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Are you hearing me? If you are supposed to be here helping... PLEASE COME!!! We need you!<br />
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I know that bills are forever showing up in the mail. I know that you probably already give to ten different charities, but if you can spare just and extra $5 a month... please give it! It doesn't have to be to ODM. There are plenty of people that are desperate for your assistance. Give more. Do more. Be a part of the change! Take some action!<br />
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~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-18044591739954044812016-04-01T09:48:00.001-07:002016-04-01T14:02:06.864-07:00Dirty Little... Slut?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
"Don't come home until you can bring me 500 Lempiras!" I am sure that she was never told to sell herself. I am almost positive that she never wanted to offer her body to make the money. But I know that making that money in one day in this country doesn't happen very often. Unless, you are willing to work the streets! Every day the words, names, actions that surrounded her implied what she was to become. "You dirty little slut! You are worthless! You are good for nothing! I would rather be spliced with chicken wire than have to continue to look at your face! Don't you dare come home without that money."<br />
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I have an employee that was/is a prostitute. And I will not fire her because of it. I am not capable.</div>
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For two years I have had the desire to work with prostitutes. I have longed to have donors designate funds for me to pay the girls for their time. Take them to dinner. Love on them. Be a friend. And send them home. Why? Because I know most of them are required to perform this way. They know without money in their pocket they will be beat. They know they will be gang raped on their way back home when their performance hasn't pleased El Jefe. They know their family will be hurt. They really don't have many options to escape their inevitable reality. Even if they don't want the red light outside their window the gang will just put it back up again tomorrow.</div>
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I believe she started for the same reason. I know that she was forced into some acts by family because of stories she has entrusted to me. I just never knew the depth. I never knew how recent. I never knew... Maybe I should have asked.</div>
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She is loyal. She is a hard worker. She is the most dependable worker we have. She is grateful. She is so grateful that she comes to me weekly with hugs and tears full of gratitude for the opportunity. On Easter Sunday she profusely thanked me for changing her life and allowing her to feel loved for the first time.</div>
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Frankly, I don't care what she was known for in her past. I know that she can have a future. I don't see her past choices affecting our kids. Actually, I see it helping her encourage them more in their studies and helping her to constantly remind them of their current opportunities. </div>
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This wasn't my idea. I never planned on having a prostitute for hire help us with the ministry. Rahab married into one of the leading families in Israel. I can only imagine the judgement that came upon them. I would bet a million dollars her husband never dreamed he would one day marry the town whore. And the in-laws... I laugh as I think about dinner conversations as he suggests the idea and says "Mom, I'm gonna marry her anyway." What was God thinking as He allowed all of this to happen? Oh, you know, probably about how He could best accomplish His work because she was the willing servant that didn't give a crap about anything other than doing what she believed was right in her heart.<br />
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The balls it took for Rahab to betray her people. She was already an outcast. She was viewed as less than. She was probably disowned by her only family because of her lifestyle. She still stuck her neck out on the line for these "men of God". When you read the story and actually pay attention, she acknowledges that these men were sent "By the ONE true God." Imagine that. She chose, I mean the harlot decided, to help accomplish the will of God. Because of her heart to serve she married up! Not a little up... Big up! And check out the genealogy... The blood line that leads up to our Savior.</div>
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She is beautiful. She is valuable. She is worthy of second chances. She can bring a piece to the table that we are all missing. Help me love her! It is easy when I feel the need and can relate. It is easy, some of the time. In the midst of the ridicule... It is so hard. (I feel kind of skitzo because in my head it is more like this: She is beautiful, slut. She is valuable to her pimp daddy. She is worthy of second chances to bring home more dough.) I want to cry as I write these thoughts. Whether flying through my head in a joking manner or not. It isn't fair. Not to her. Not to her family. Not to her kids. She is a treasure. Not because of who she can blow and how much dough she can bring home. She is a treasure because she, like me, is covered in the same blood. Her Savior, is mine. Her daddy, He is mine. He sees His daughter. His beautiful little girl. Worthy of nothing, yet she inherits EVERYTHING. She is the daughter of the same King. Her father, like mine, owns the cattle on a thousand hills. She is adopted into the family, forgiven of everything, crazy history wiped clean... I mean blank slate. She is beautiful. She is a princess.</div>
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So many times my part in the ministry has nothing to do with the kids at all. It is more about the staff. I need an open heart that is always willing to go the extra mile. Even if an entire town will judge you for it. I need the strength and stamina to continue pushing and pulling out staff in the right direction. Helping them heal and leading them to wholeness. I need the understanding so I don't join the rest as fingers are pointed and as judgement is cast down. Wisdom to say the right thing at the right time and that it would help to bring a calm in the midst of chaos. I need... To not care about the ugly truth of the past of any of them, but to continually see them as He does.<br />
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I didn't plan to save a prostitute. It just kind of happened. Now I have to not throw in the towel and quit on her like everyone else in her past...<br />
Hey Val! I guess we finally started that side of the ministry. Ready or not. It just kind of happened! Help me!</div>
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~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-51112527405663793482016-03-30T15:55:00.001-07:002016-03-30T15:55:27.384-07:00Just Pray<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I have been thinking a lot lately about a list of names that are pretty insignificant to a lot of people. But to me... They mean the world.<br />
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It is a long list. It reaches well over 100. It is a list a place my hand over and pray, plead, cry out for the protection and blessing on each one. I pray for their spouses to be. I pray for their kids that will one day come. I pray for their health. I pray for their provision. I pray for their desire to study and for their stamina to help the overcome. I pray for their healing and that there would not be a scar that causes confusion, doubt, or complication, but that the scars they find would catapult them forward.<br />
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Today as I analyzed this list... I thought about the Book of Life. There is a list that is very similar. It is a list of all of us that have been adopted into the family. And as I sit here analyzing this all that comes to my mind is if I do this... What does He do? My thoughts, prayers, and hard work don't compare to anything that He would do and/or does do every day. My efforts are petty and ridiculous and as much as I stress to accomplish all that I do He probably sits back and laughs at me on a daily basis. I guess I can be pretty entertaining.<br />
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I am sure any of us could be?<br />
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I remember my grandma. She was a very worrisome person in her old age. She would give you everything out of her cabinet even if it meant she went hungry. She was known for buying too many things just because they were on sale, but then she gave most of it away. She would make WAY too much food anytime she had family over and she would send it all home. She tithed, faithfully. She probably tithed in advance believing that she would win the lotto. She GAVE. If there was a guest speaker, a missionary, or someone in need... SHE GAVE IT ALL AWAY. She was a widow. She had little to offer in the physical, but it was all she had and she gave it all. That being said, SHE WORRIED! She would give in faith and worry later. I remember calling her a worry wart. When I was first married I was so young. I was 19. And I had a kitchen with every spice that McCormick ever made. She gave me all of them. I can remember having her over for dinner and trying to make something special, or even stopping by her place on my way home from work. We would sit and talk and watch the news. (THE NEWS!!! I mean this only caused her to worry more. And I enabled this to happen with being the bad company!) She would then talk about how awful things were and she began to worry. I could tell her not to worry. I did tell her. I would tell her to pray and release it to God. She would still worry. She was the type to check her coffee maker four times after pulling out of her garage just in case it was still on.<br />
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When she was younger her house burned to the ground. This happened more than once in her life. I can imagine it left her with a deep scar. A fear of losing every memory and all the physical property that she had to her name. After all, she would rather give it away than have it taken from her.<br />
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I don't know that she every stopped worrying. She was so concerned for the well being of her kids and her grand kids. And every day, in spite of the worrying, she kneeled beside her bed and prayed for every single one of us. She even prayed for the employees and clients where she worked.<br />
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She taught us all well. In fact, I told her to stop worrying so many times that I think I may have picked up her burden some where along the way. I started to worry about these kids. These projects. These staff members and key players in the kids lives. These families. What was I thinking? Silly me.<br />
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~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-62701308940025085492016-03-12T15:15:00.000-08:002016-03-30T15:29:38.495-07:00Hold On Tight...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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“Kai hold on tight. You don’t want to fall off.” As I try
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my neck.</div>
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“Careful Jayden. Hold on tight until we get across the water.”
As we cross the river that frequents our city streets this time of year. Once
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Driving down the road and the kids are hanging on the
running boards of the truck. “Hold on tight Carlos, don’t let go.”</div>
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This phrase… I have heard it
probably more frequently than I now say it.</div>
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As a little girl at the beach afraid the waves would pull me
under I remember my dad saying “Hold on tight.” Or as we speed across the rough waters in his boat I could barely hear him as he yelled, "Hold on tight!"</div>
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Parasailing with my little sister as we stared down out our
miniature sized looking feet. I can still hear her “Hold on tight Lala, I don’t
want to fall.”</div>
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And then there are the unspoken “Hold on tights”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The day my brother passed away trying
to remember his smell, his laugh, his smile, and the twinkle of his eyes. I
remember thinking “Hold on tight Lauren, don’t let go of the memories.” </div>
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You know those moments of being overwhelmed. Feeling that
you are in way over your head. A storm that is brewing and it is SO big and it is moving SO fast. You see it coming, but you see it only after you have been feeling the
pressure and winds for weeks before hand. In those moments, “Hold on tight.
Don’t let go.” </div>
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I don’t know if it is a don’t let go because something
better is coming, or if it is a don’t let go because they still need you. Maybe
it is a don’t let go because it is almost over. It will never make much sense
to me and I will probably never understand it fully.</div>
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I am beginning to wonder if I have a sick desire for stress
and extra pressure. Or maybe it is just that I am stupid enough to believe that
I am resilient and invincible. This is all blended together by the fact that I
STILL have not learned the word NO.</div>
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I mean, I know "NO". I say it all
the time to a bunch of staff and to all my kids. No touching. No running. No screaming. No punching. No taking food off the table. No more leaving your things thrown all over. No standing on the furniture. No throwing rocks at the vehicles. No slamming doors. With all of these people around I can say the word NO!</div>
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I just haven’t learned to say No
to the face of need. </div>
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I don’t know if it is because I am hearing, “It is okay. Don’t
let go. Just hang on.” Or if I am imagining I hear it because it is etched into the tissues
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Last night we had a wind storm. No rain. Just wind. It
knocked over the patio furniture and we thought our roof was being peeled back.
This morning I went outside and it was a disaster. In front of our house is a
HUGE Ceibon. This is a really large tree that grows huge here in Honduras. It is taller than a three story hotel that is close by. The tree was not touched. There were
leaves all over the ground. A few sticks and twigs, but you know not one branch was on the
ground. There wasn’t anything on the ground larger than my forearm.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Furniture knocked over, a solid table
flipped sideways, my door flung open, and not one branch on the ground.</div>
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That was all that was said. I stared at the trees with the
beauty of the mountains in the background. All I can hear is “Hold on tight!”
It is spinning and flying in my head as fast as the winds of a tornado.
Unscathed. </div>
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I don’t know who I am writing for. I know that I felt the
need to share it. You will come out of this. “ ’Hold on tight. Don’t let
go!”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The leaves will fall to the
ground around you, but your roots grow deep. You are strong. You won’t bend or
break. I have placed you in this very place at this very time. Do not think for
a second it was all in vane. Did you hear me? I called you to trust me.
When I said, Come Follow Me. It meant FOLLOW ME. Don’t hesitate to continue down the path even
through the darkness. Do not look at the dark monstrous shadows that surround
you. Come follow me. Listen to my voice and continue down the path. You are
built to withstand this storm. ‘Don’t let go!’ ” </div>
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Don’t let go of His plan. Don’t
let go of that dream. Don’t let go of the promise. Find His voice. It is gentle. It is constant. It is calming. It brings peace. It is full of wisdom. It is. He is. He will. He did. And He does. </div>
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~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-13159122691912553762015-10-06T13:56:00.001-07:002015-10-06T14:05:51.721-07:00The Rains Came Down<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
For over a year I have been posturing myself to move onto other projects. I have had the heart to grow us in new directions. And I know that my deadline is a couple months away.<br />
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And the rains came down. </div>
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Talking and planning and getting excited. Walking by faith as each step trembles a little with fear. By faith, we walk on water. By faith, we grow. Dealing with what has felt like contractions for a long time I got hit in the nose. </div>
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A couple days ago I was informed that I had to take a bunch of old responsibilities back over. Not that it is a BAD thing, but before I can release it I need to focus on developing character and infrastructure. I know it will be okay. </div>
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BUT! You know when it rains on my parade it can't just sprinkle, it has to downpour. Losing sleep trying to figure out the what's and how's left me feeling down in the dumps. It's not just one little thing. It is a bunch of things all at once. Well, more like a bunch of big things. Then something crazy silly happened that I want to share. </div>
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Sunday, at church, after debating how the service was going to work out and deciding Yuri was going to be a one man show because some of us felt we had little to offer... He sang a kid song. </div>
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"The wise man built his house upon the rock... the rains came down and the floods came up", and what came next? Nothing! The foolish man that lacked a solid foundation lost it all. But the wise man was steady, he brushed the drops off and carried on with life. </div>
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This means several things to me. Most importantly, I need to yank my extended hands onto my foundation. And just as important, trust and continue in faith because I know who my foundation is and do not doubt the rock on which I stand. </div>
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Growing pains hurt almost at much as birth pains sometimes. But the baby that is to come will be worth it. And the success of these kids... Worth so much more. </div>
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How will you be affected by your rain storm? Are your feet planted firmly? Don't waiver. Trust and believe in your solid foundation. </div>
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~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-63478306914783714182015-09-28T21:22:00.001-07:002015-09-28T21:22:38.893-07:00Tents are luxurious!"Mom? I'm hungry." I was frustrated. I didn't have time for the extra distractions. "You just had lunch at school." <div><br></div><div>A few hours pass. </div><div><br></div><div>I see him asleep in the back seat of the car. Trying to wake him up he grabbed at his stomach. "Jayden, you have to go to practice. Hurry up!" For the next two hours I see him randomly pull at his stomach. After practice he asked for a snack. "No, we will have dinner as soon as it is ready." </div><div><br></div><div>We were sitting at the table and he inhaled his plate and asked for more before I could blink. "Jayden, what's up dude?" "I told you I was hungry!" Scratching my head I imagined he was ready to grow some more. </div><div><br></div><div>The next day on the way to school he points out a classmate. "That is who I give my lunch too." "What do you mean give your lunch? You eat your lunch. It is for YOU!" "Mom he doesn't have money to buy food and his mom doesn't send him anything."</div><div><br></div><div>Epic fail as a mom. I sit and reprimand and don't ask the right questions. His compassion shines through everywhere he goes. He loves, helps, shares. And I forget. Sometimes I get cold and numb to what is around me. I get tired of the garbage pickers going through my trash and dumping crap all over the front of the house before the truck comes by. I get tired of there always being someone next to me and in front of me that is need. I have gotten so exhausted that I have started to become cold. I need my blinders removed.</div><div><br></div><div>Sometimes I give so much, so hard, and for so long that I forget to give back to me. If I give back to me and take a few minutes I am not as toxic and cold. And maybe I will start to ask the right questions. </div><div><br></div><div>For instance. Maybe there is a problem with migration for more reasons than danger. Starting with the lack of education and poverty. What would you do and where would you go if you never had food for your child? Imagine for a minute a shack with walls made from sheets and a roof made from a tarp. You may call it camping, but your tent is way to nice for what I am talking about. What if your only pot had a hole in it. Your kitchen spoon was a stick and your stove was an open fire under the rain drops. No refrigerator. No cabinets and pantry full of boxed/canned goods. You had to make what you found around you in the garden or what you could aford to buy for your family after earning your wage of less than $2 for your whole days work. How are you going to feed your family? What will you do as you stare at your child gripping his gut because he hasn't eaten in two days? That my friends is the reality of where we live. </div>~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-37239752392706290022015-03-06T10:00:00.000-08:002015-03-06T10:22:56.413-08:00Labeled<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I am writing this on such a personal level, I don't want to post it. I know so many people will read this that follow the ministry and will probably over analyze the words written. But I have decided I don't care.<br />
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I am writing this for myself, for my true friends, and for those that consider themselves my family. If you are not in that category you may want to stop and close out this page NOW.<br />
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I have been labeled. You have been labeled. We have all been labeled. And I find it repulsive.<br />
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One of my girls doesn't want to go to school any longer because she is 16 and has a 4 year old daughter. Kids at school make fun of her. She is labeled with "run around," "prostitute", "easy". Nobody thought to ask if she was raped or abused. I don't know of any little girls that want to be thrown into an abandoned building as they walk home from school and taken advantage of. But the outcome is a beautiful little girl. A life we rejoice in. She has an excellent Father from above who has provided for her and her mom. And no label applies here. I am proud of her mom for persevering and marching forward in life to try and improve her future. She is doing great and deserves to be lifted up and showered in words of praise.<br />
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I am divorced. I am fat. I am ugly. I am mean. I am spoiled. I am selfish. I am judgemental. I am...<br />
You name it and I have probably been called it. Even the Queen B which probably does apply more often than anything else. A few apply, but NONE define. A few don't come close to applying and definitely don't even exist in my world. It doesn't matter. The label was placed. The words were spoken. The harm was caused. The hurt is now cured. The scar on my heart, however, I will forever feel.<br />
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I just listened to a lady cry as she was pushed out of her church because she is walking through the storm of her life. She is getting a divorce. How awful, right? I mean how horrible that she isn't just the submissive woman we were all called to be? What is wrong with her? Why doesn't she just shut up and hunker down? God hates divorce.<br />
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Oh... wait... I AM DIVORCED. I forgot what I wrote just a few sentences ago.<br />
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I don't believe divorce is an option! For some, it becomes necessary.<br />
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I don't have to write a list of excuses. Bottom line, from day one I knew it wasn't right and I couldn't let my joy be sucked dry any longer. No fault on anybody except for me. I said yes. I thought I knew what I was doing. I made the mistake. Then I wanted out. I regret none of it. I learned a lot. I am thankful all parties have moved on. I love my ex on some level and I always will want the best, but the bottom line is it wasn't for me. A lot of damage was done along the way. It created a lot more labels.<br />
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Our whole world is designed around labeling people. You go to get a new license and they want to know if you are married, single, divorced, or separated. You fill out a passport application and they ask for your race.<br />
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What does it really matter?<br />
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Labeling is so extreme that my four year old son was afraid to come home and tell us about a new friend because of their color of skin. "Jayden, did you think I would be mad because they were darker?" "Not you mom, but Rolando's dad doesn't let them play together so I thought daddy would be mad too." For centuries people have been labeled because of their race or their religion.<br />
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Why are we afraid of something that looks, feels, or sounds a little different? Jesus sat and laughed and enjoyed life amongst the oddballs, the uglies, the fatties, and even the town ho.<br />
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What is our problem?<br />
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A recent hire failed to show up to work. When I called to find out why I was told that her father said no. I asked for more information. "He is a pastor and he knows you are friends with the family that owns __________", a local restaurant. Really??<br />
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We are so blinded by these labels that we let it decide our life path on a daily basis. At what point do you stop it? At what point do we decide to love and support the people around us regardless? Not because it is easy, but because it is what we are told to do.<br />
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He didn't come for the safe and healthy people. He came for the sick and needy. He is a healer of all areas. Not just referring to diseases. He overlooks the imperfections and sees something better down within. He took the time to notice and care everything about you and me, but not them? Could that possibly be true?<br />
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It hurts when I look at the damage the church has created. "I didn't think you would like me or talk to me. Why do you listen so much?" I can't help, but ask why I wouldn't? It is part of the commandment. He didn't send us out to judge and persecute people into righteousness. He sent us to exemplify His love and in turn winning them into the Kingdom. "I am here to help. Judging isn't going to help you, but I can love you and pray that He does the rest." That is the only reply I had for a new friend full of questions after being shunned by the "Godly".<br />
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I think Honduras needs a church for screw ups because the only places around here with crosses require perfection to gain membership or rosary beads. I really don't know anybody that fits into the category labeled perfect, but I can show you some buildings that seem to think they are full of them. The weak, the hurting, the hungry are all around, but they aren't inside the walls they need the most.<br />
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Do something different to love them and change them. It starts with you and me. Because I am ________, but it doesn't matter. It was all erased because I am His!!!</div>
~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-62452140799486866662015-02-13T10:11:00.002-08:002015-02-13T10:33:21.439-08:00What is Special. What is Need.<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I stared out the window as my heart fell into pieces. I frantically began searching the car for food, water, and anything that I thought could fulfill a need. As my endearing husband passed me water that he took from my sister, "Go do your thing Mother Theresa" were the only words he had to say.<br />
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He was maybe 18. It was obvious he had a case of Down's Syndrome. He was squatting beside the cart outside of a gas station on one of the most trafficked boulevards in Honduras. I watched through the blur of my tears as he scooped water up from the mud puddle trying to get water into his little jug. As I walked over I called out to him. No response. I stood beside him speaking to him and still, no response. Finally, I squatted down and held out the water bottle. He took it. He said nothing. He responded to nothing. I realized he wasn't only mute, but deaf too. <br />
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I returned to the car and asked for some shoes. There were none. I walked to the trunk and pulled out a pair of mine, girly or not at least he has something for his feet. As I neared him this time he saw my shadow coming and stood up. I reached out with shoes and told them they were his. He went to the other side of his wood cart and leaned on it as he began to squeeze water from his jeans and clean off his feet.<br />
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We were leaving. I wanted to stay and observe a while, but we didn't have the time. As we drove away I watched as he sat up in the cart struggling to put on his new shoes. My heart ached. Where is his family? Where is his help? A child with Down's can grow into a functioning adult. This boy still needed a guardian and someone to teach him and allow him to blossom.<br />
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Later the next day as night fell upon the city we drove by the same gas station. He was there. Laying in his cart. Another piece of my heart fell.<br />
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For years we have had hearts to open a home for special needs children. People believe it isn't needed here. This country doesn't know what a special needs child is, means, or needs. I have a friend that moved back to Honduras from Arizona that worked with these kids. It was her major. Here she is just considered a nurse. Her heart is for more, but she is stuck living in a community of people that just don't get it.<br />
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I get it. I want to help too. We lack the funding. We lack the location. We lack the support.<br />
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There is a need. It is a special need. It requires a special heart of a special person to reach out and meet it.<br />
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Are you the one? Do you know someone that is? Please help us continue to reach lives. They all matter!<br />
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<a href="http://www.open-doorministries.com/" target="_blank">Open Door Ministries</a></div>
~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-72539884060304742412014-11-18T09:41:00.000-08:002014-11-24T09:44:20.211-08:00Santa, Christmas, and Helping Others!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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“Mom, I don’t want to stay here for Christmas. I want to go
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“But Jayden, this is where we live. Why don’t you want to be
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“Because Santa doesn’t come to Honduras!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Why not mom? Why?”</div>
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I had to think. I wasn’t sure how to respond. I let the
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Christmas. A celebration. A party of sorts in remembrance of
our SAVIOR! He didn’t say Christmas doesn’t come to Honduras. He said
SANTA.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We have spent the last
couple days preparing for Christmas at the orphanage. He has begged for every
nativity scene to come home with us because we need to have Baby Jesus under
our tree. He gets the reason behind the season I love. What he doesn’t get is why
Santa doesn’t come here with all the pretty packages.</div>
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At first, I thought this was awful. This child of mine that
wasn’t grasping the reason Santa is not in Honduras. Then I remembered a note
that I received from the director of his school. “Jayden is the first in his
class to help and give to another student in need.” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The thought was reassuring in the moment. The kid that makes
once a week visits to the school nurse. The English speaking kid that gets in
trouble every week for speaking too much Spanish in school. The kid that is too
rough for his age, and while the teacher says he is just playing, some how the
other students tend to get hurt. That kid. He is my little giver. My helper. I
quickly had flashbacks of how many times I would yell for him to stop giving
away his toys because he wouldn’t have any left. Then I remembered the days we
couldn’t buy groceries and he would give away his last cheese stick to the
little girl that came and begged at the gate. If anybody understands the giving
principal it is him. He gets it so well. He thinks Santa should be giving too.
It is the poverty and dirt he does not see.</div>
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He lives surrounded by the poverty in this country. He has
helped feed the poorest of the poor. He plays with them. Laughs with them. And
he has helped them brush off the dirt as they stand up from falling off the
rocks outside the feeding station. How do I explain that the families can’t
afford presents without ruining the mystery of Santa? The real reason there are
no pretty packages is because of the poverty that surrounds us? </div>
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He has asked why I haven’t started preparing the baskets for
our kids. He likes to put in the drink packets. How do I explain that this year
the ministry doesn’t have the funds for Christmas baskets so we aren’t giving
to all the families at the feeding station? We only have enough for some
families so we have plenty of time to get it done.</div>
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I have similar thoughts to his all the time. </div>
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I have turned down at least one new child every day over the
past week. I pray that God sends someone to meet their needs so they don’t go
to bed hungry at night because I can’t bring them home. I sob as I try to go to
sleep feeling an agony so deep that it pierces my soul in an excruciating way.
“God, let them know they are loved!”</div>
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I went last week to meet with a girl that is not just wanting
placement, but needs it. I want to say yes. I just can’t right now. On the way
home I stopped to pick up one last ingredient for the Christmas cookies we were
going to make that evening. As I stood in the check-out lane Jayden picked up
some “pretties”. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>With all of his
excitement “Look it! Look it!! Mom!!! Look at this!!!” I reluctantly turned to
let him know I was sort of paying attention. “Can we get this for the new girl
for Christmas? She would like it!”</div>
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How do I explain to a four year old that has more compassion
than I do, the reason I can’t bring home more kids? </div>
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I think every year Open Doors makes a plea for help with
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My plea is for something more. It is for consistent monthly
support. It is for families to “adopt” a child from afar and send them support
so they can feel and experience the love of a Savior. What if this year instead
of sending corporate gift baskets a corporate sponsorship of a child was made?
What if instead of a gift to someone that already has everything, you gave in
their honor to someone with nothing?</div>
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I think it would be great to play Santa all year. Not just stopping in the month of December. Giving a gift that will continue to impact and change a life. Making a difference. If that is something that would interest you please go to our website and donate now! Help us continue to be a blessing! </div>
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~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-39568136327119227862014-10-14T14:44:00.001-07:002014-10-14T14:45:32.553-07:00Just a frayed string<div><br></div><div>I live in a country of extreme poverty. Amongst homes built of sticks, mud, and cardboard you can see mansions that any American would be happy to call home. Among the luxury cars that American teens dream of having, scraping by the glamour passes a horse drawn carriage collecting garbage looking to earn some sort of wage for the day. On the back of the cart sit kids rummaging through my five day old spoiled yogurt bottle and quickly the top comes off as one takes a swig. </div><div><br></div><div>My heart just hit the ground again. </div><div><br></div><div>I recently had an encounter with a lady who has nothing. She has a few outfits, two pairs of shoes, a mat she calls a bed, and an arm full of bracelets made with string given to her by her son. "He made them for me!" I admire her arm, "they are beautiful." She looks at me out of the corner of one of her eyes, "but you would never wear something like this. It isn't good enough for you."<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div></div><div><br></div><div>I wasn't sure how to reply. It isn't something I would buy. But that doesn't take it's value away. "I would be happy to wear one. I know it's a prized possession and it has great worth!" </div><div><br></div><div>She wrapped her arms around my neck and placed a bracelet on my arm before I could blink. </div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUZ4GuT9-7qZvb7f9KCvtJs_BQgvx8_lLn7yvVWN9VwhFDwLqFgstsxT6_iftgzWNUsLlTIwn3YtwSP8MJwaYPhU63PhIJytiy5RQg066sb3sp3cKop4lDmN1bF7hN1ihaExwGa6YZhCA8/s640/blogger-image--777308396.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUZ4GuT9-7qZvb7f9KCvtJs_BQgvx8_lLn7yvVWN9VwhFDwLqFgstsxT6_iftgzWNUsLlTIwn3YtwSP8MJwaYPhU63PhIJytiy5RQg066sb3sp3cKop4lDmN1bF7hN1ihaExwGa6YZhCA8/s640/blogger-image--777308396.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div>It isn't glitzy. It isn't even colors I normally pick. But it has become a daily reminder to pray for her. And I value the strings tied around my wrist. A month has gone by and not once have I taken it off. It represents a lot to me. </div><div><br></div><div>I was given all she had to give and it was done with a heart of joy. </div><div><br></div><div>I see her every day when I look down. I see her when I try to hide my arm because I catch a "friend" staring at it. I am humbled and remember to let go of pride. At least once a day I ask if it is beneath me. "Am I really to good for it?", Asking as I try and wear a silver bangle on top to <span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">hide the frayed strings. </span></div><div><br></div><div>I am no better. I make no better choices. My blessings in life are no greater than hers. They just look different. </div><div><br></div><div>I stop and wonder. If it were a bracelet made of gold would I try to hide it, or would I show it off? What gives gold it's value? The desire to be had by people? Or some man that decides it has value based on its shine and weight? Why don't people value humble hearts full of joy more than a thin string full of jewels? </div><div><br></div><div>Could I be the old lady that offered the last of my two cents as an offering or would I stuff it in my pocket to save for another day?</div><div><br></div><div>And why, when I see someone digging for good in my garbage bag full of maggots, do I not invite them in and make a Kings Feast? What stops me? Am I really too busy? Or do I really just not care? Or, am I afraid they will get my furniture dirty and make my house stink?</div><div><br></div><div>I get caught up in life. I get distracted with helping others so much that I don't help or value the few passing right in front of my eyes. Instead of sharing leftovers, I save them because I might be hungry later. It is not just me. I look at the orphanage which is now full of people that have forgotten the sticks and shambles they have come from and are growing more self absorbed each day. </div><div><br></div><div>How do we stop? How do we change? For me, keeping this bracelet on my arm is a start and a reminder. </div>~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-13431300148708925322014-03-26T10:13:00.000-07:002014-03-26T10:13:11.974-07:00Cloudy Goggles<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Most days at the projects I am awakened by a text, phone
call, or knocking on my door. Most nights are spent reviewing my inbox and
trying to reply to as much as I can and give as much detail as possible before
my eyes cross and head hits the keyboard. The kids have a box that they can
place their questions, concerns, complaints, and special requests in. The staff
tends to use text or email.</div>
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Last night, I had seven emails from one person within an
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My natural response is frustration and anger. The feelings
apply to not just the person the email is written about, but towards the writer
as well. So much time is needed to pour into, mold, create, develop a
person/worker of excellence. When a typical reaction would be to fire and get
rid of the problem. My heart is to pause, pray, evaluate, train, correct, and
develop both parties into the employee that we so desperately need.</div>
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He said and she said happens all the time. Not just here. It
is a plague that has infested the church and the body of Christ. How quick we
are to act and react! Why don’t we hesitate and contemplate the ENTIRE
situation, then with calm give a response. The way we respond to it separates
us from being just average and a true disciple. What would happen if in the
pause we looked through their eyes?</div>
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REACTING! Not only do the employees do this. I DO THIS! I do
this not just with workers, but with kids in the orphanage. Not just those
kids, but my own kids. Worse, I do it with my life partner. What spouse wants
someone that will respond with haste? I don’t that is why I normally reply in
bitter angst. Yours truly. I do that! Me! The one with the heart of gold. Haha.
Last week I think I made a confession to my dad that someone demanded something
of me recently. I didn’t do it. He snickered. I was feverishly angry. “Ask me
for help, I will dedicate my life to it! Demand something from me, my feet will
become stuck in cement as my arms fall off my side.” That is me! </div>
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Maybe that is why with our staff you don’t find me
dictating. I will not command or demand. I let them be the mom of the house.
When I see issues I will step in, draw attention to a problem area, and suggest
a different way of handling it. Nobody wants to be ruled with an iron fist.
Look through their eyes, understand the why, the frustration, the education or
lack there of, then with love we can correct. No house mom is working just for
the money. They wouldn’t last. The current group of staff members is there
because of LOVE. Love for Him, Love for them. </div>
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My reply to the rambling email complaints was all of that
paragraph above. This immediately brought on an additional three emails full of
apologies, prayers, and asking for more help. Amazing how when we address
things calmly and with love the response that we get in return! </div>
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You know the saying, "You can catch more flies with honey than
with vinegar"? Most of my family HATES those words. We are all independent,
leaders, and we tend to be controlling so that we can get the job done the
RIGHT way the FIRST time. Then I married someone just like that. Why? Because I
was dumb and didn’t weigh the frustration that I would feel in having someone
like that permanently by my side. Behind that, is the fact that God knew, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I need someone to stand by my side to
get things done. I didn’t need someone that would sit on his butt until I was
run over by the bus I was trying to stop on my own. I needed someone just as
strong and powerful to stop the bus with me, or to push me out of the way when
it wasn’t worth my effort. Now if I can remember to only see that side! </div>
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The basis for all help and assistance the root of it all is
LOVE. What motivates you most in life? Are we not all passionate about making
life beautiful and wonderful for the ones we love most? A man will work 20
hours a day to provide for his wife and children. (Driven by love.) A woman
will work a 12 hour shift and come home to cook, clean, and do homework. (Again
it is for love.) If something needs to change, if there is something wrong… How
do you motivate the ones around you to change? Through LOVE!</div>
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Me loving you is showing you, changing you, growing you. It
doesn’t matter if it is work, family, or friends. If you don’t do it for love
you won’t stick with it for long. If a subconscious or material need is met by
working your butt off, you will eventually become bitter with your boss. If you
love what you do because of WHO you do it for and because of what will be
produced, at the base you will find love.</div>
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There have been a few times in my life that I have known
that I am right where I am supposed to be. Most the time I kind of guess and
assume. Sometimes I am SO convicted to do something that I lose sleep. Right
now, is one of those moments. I can tell. I know because of the emotional,
mental, and physical obstacles I have been facing. I know. I am right where He
wants me.</div>
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<br /></div>
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On occasion their faces plague me. They spin around in my
dreams and stop randomly on two in particular. I find myself awake in the
middle of the night praying. I am determined to make a difference.</div>
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<br /></div>
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One of them is a man I have been reaching out to. He isn’t
in the best of situations. I have forced my partner in crime to accompany me to
visit him at least once a week. Resentful at first, a month later Nilsson is
pushing me to go twice a week. We sit, we talk, we visit. I ask questions, the
man answers, half of his replies are covered in lies. I know this, but I don’t
care. There is something about him. We took my dad to meet him. Now I think he
may be becoming his best friend. Not really, but he for sure found a soft spot
in my dads heart. The other day I found out Nilsson now visits him without me.
This is a little scary. We went from not interested to bi-daily chats.</div>
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In a group setting I asked if I could pray for some of the
members that surrounded us. They accepted. Then I called on “him”. I asked him
to pray. To pray for himself, to pray for the group around us. He said he would
pray with me, but not lead. He admitted in a group of people that would likely
judge him for faith that he would accompany me in the prayer. It was a start. I
accepted. We prayed.</div>
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<br /></div>
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A couple weeks later he admits to my father that his grandpa
was a pastor. Interesting that someone labeled as the worst of the worst of
people you could possibly want to know in this life has been rooted in the
word. He knows the Bible. He believes in the Bible. He is asking for the Word.
He knows where true life is found. He has never forgotten his roots.</div>
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A murderer. An addict. An abuser. A liar. A thief. An
adulterer. An extortioner. We have tons of negative labels that are placed on
people in this world. You and I are not exempt. Whether it was big or small
every one of us is plagued with a piece of guilt from some place in our past. We
have a label. When we call on God, He sees NONE of this. All He can see is a
child of His. Lost or found, He can see you. He cares. The church was found,
the Bible it was written, His son was given, all for you. Not for perfection,
but for every flaw you would have. His blood was shed. </div>
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We all are born with a basic knowledge of this. We know,
deep down, there is something more, something larger.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Our families are rooted in it. Yet sometimes it is hard to
just surrender. A family history of ministry isn’t necessary. It is engrained from
the moment we are conceived. </div>
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My little friend. His face spins in my head. I see him when
I go to sleep. I am haunted with it as I awake. So I pray for him. And I know
that if I continue to show the love he will come around. It is in our visits.
Our talks. Our simple prayers that he will come around. </div>
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Prayer, no matter how big or small, prayer makes a
difference. </div>
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~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-82859835555185081182014-02-10T11:15:00.000-08:002014-02-10T11:15:09.384-08:00Breaking<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Just a break</div>
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That is all. That’s it. A break. I want to wake up and not
see your face. I want to walk outside and not have you greet me. I want to
enter a store or a clinic without you asking for something. I want a day, an
hour, even just a minute of peace and rest. </div>
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I am exhausted. I feel plagued. I have spent two weeks
wanting to write. Two weeks thinking, processing, now I have silence… Then
another clang is at my gate. Shhhh… I want a sign that says baby sleeping. You
wouldn’t be able to read it.</div>
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I want a guard that sends you away and tells you to leave me
alone. You wouldn’t understand it.</div>
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I pay you to take my garbage so you can find food amongst
the smelly leftovers and buy water to drink. I give you my moldy clothes and
broken sandles so you can be clothed. And daily you ask me for more. Daily you
find me. I buy your half rotten oranges because I wonder what it would be like
if it was all I had to offer the only form of survival. I offer you my last
tortilla praying with every ounce of my being my husband will have a patient
today so he can bring home dinner.</div>
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Then I watch. I watch your young children come with your
babies hoping I will give medicine. I make them laugh. I play with them trying
to catch a twinkle in the deepest parts of their eyes. I touch them giving them
the only form of healthy affection that they will most likely ever know in
their lives. I get annoyed by the frequent visits as I turn to go back inside.</div>
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I listen as the judge comes and tells me about the most
recent sex traffickers being caught. I hear a name I recognize. It was her. </div>
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I begged to be left alone. I pleaded for silence. Now I am
consumed by the guilt and the bitter frustration that I didn’t step in sooner.
The voice that once annoyed me I wonder if I could have helped. The banging and
knocking, the pleads for assistance. What if I had stopped and truly listened?
What if my plans and to-do lists had been set to rest for an hour or two? Would
it have changed your future? Could I have saved your pain?</div>
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There is no training. There is no preparation. The
frustration. The guilt. The anger. The bitterness. The helplessness. Nothing
could ever prepare me for the emotions I feel. </div>
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My heart aches. I think it is breaking into pieces. There is
a love I know to be so pure. So kind. So genuine. I want to share it. I want to
pour it out. I want to take each and every one of them and place them in the
most beautiful crystal encasing and show them what it is to truly be a
princess. A King. A Savior. A Provider. A Healer. The One that can change it
all. The One that intended for all things good and beautiful, to know and be
known. How would she ever know? How can she ever comprehend? Did He hear her
cry? Does He see her tears? You can say yes, but when it only feels like a NO
what is left?</div>
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She questions her birth? I tell her of a purpose and a
destiny. She wonders if I’m drugged. If only she weren’t living. I assure her
there is a bigger picture. One she can’t see. One she can’t trust. If the
bigger picture was always there than why did she suffer the hurt?</div>
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Questions. Answers. Questions. Thoughts. Questions without
answers.</div>
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Preparation? A life full of love. Pre-requisite? Willing
heart. Duties? Too many to name.</div>
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Looking for someone to help fill some shoes. The one that
walked before me left an impression to big for me to fill. Please send some
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~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-70415943578873502472013-12-14T06:26:00.001-08:002013-12-14T06:26:55.461-08:00Strange Isolation<div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); ">This goes to a different level of personal. This has nothing to do with the ministry so you don't have to continue reading. This is just a personal hiccup. </div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); ">Standing in a room surrounded by hundreds of people. I feel so alone. It happened twice today.</div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); ">First, we had Isabellas Christmas Show. Unless we wanted to move to the capital, Isa is in the best school on the coast. Not because we fit in with the rest of the people. Simply because a parent wants the best for their child. And here the best only offers a public school curriculum from the U.S. and the American teachers to back it. The sacrifice, for us, is worth it. It is funny as I look around the gymnasium. I kind of had a laugh. She is in a school with kids that come from better families. To put it into something you can understand. The children of the Honduran T.G.Lee and children of United Airlines in her class. The Paris Hilton of Central America can be seen walking down the school halls. Sweet Bella, the child of a humble dentist and foreign missionary. What glory! Laugh! I give you permission. It is what I wanted to do. </div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); ">Surrounded with people that I am afraid to talk to. </div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); ">Then, we had a Christmas Party!!! Fun, right? Not so much. I was surround by plastic stitched doctors and their wives. Yea, that category hits me. Hitched to an Oral Surgeon in the 2nd poorest country in this hemisphere. Taadaa! He is an associate in the only medical complex you want to visit. They swipe the coast from Trujillo on. Unless you can get to San Pedro, they can't be beat. That being said. The room is full of doctors married to doctors. The only way for you to "make" something of yourself if you don't own all the milk for 500 miles? Study and become a professional. Gynecologists married to pediatricians. Anesthesiologists with dentists. Obstetricians with neurologists. Why? It is the only way to survive in a country with a quarter of the income and same cost of living as the United States. It is cheaper to have a house keeper/nanny than to pay day care. We don't have one, sure would make my life easier. I could have Jayden here if I did. </div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); ">Feeling lonely. Inadequate. Ugly. Like flubber. </div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); ">I see perfection, beauty, and...</div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); ">people that just don't care. </div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); ">People that greet with hugs and kisses. Asking how life and the cl..., what do you do again? I'm the oddball. Not just up in the States, here to. "Oh, thats right. You have all those kids." Quick, time to move on before this girl makes you feel guilty. </div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); ">I have learned to be silent. I answer what is asked. I push nothing else on people. Mr. Wonderful on the other hand seems to have some chip in him that says "make them all feel like crap!" He will talk all night about me and what I do. He likes them getting uncomfortable. </div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); ">The clock is quickly reaching midnight. Tapping Nilssons arm, "I need to go. I have to finish Christmas Baskets. I promised to make the cupcakes again." 180 cupcakes for the first feeding station await me. I stayed up until 4:30 in the morning and now I can't sleep. I only have to frost them and should probably get started. </div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); ">I have the worst job in the world. I am told this all the time as people watch me cry when the judge removes a child. Or when people see me pick a new one up. "Gringa, I could never do your job." My back hurts. My feet hurt. My heart hurts. I work longer hours than a doctor in residency. I love harder than 80% of the parents in this world. I will give you my shoes and I will go barefoot. </div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); ">But PLEASE, don't make me sit through another night like tonight. If the word sacrifice isn't in your vocabulary I feel like I can't be near you. And I? I should be proud and not insecure by why I am here. Something for me to work on. </div>~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-59558306140897157202013-12-13T05:49:00.001-08:002015-02-13T15:38:34.352-08:00The Silence<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
It is quiet, cold, and thick. I don't know the words to say or how to act. The social worker greets me giving a list of ideas. Thoughts on paper, but no one knows.<br />
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The psychologist can confirm nothing. I am nervous and uncomfortable which is crazy. I have done this before. Still, silence seems like my best option. </div>
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She is nine. She looks a little bigger than my niece that is turning four. She is nine. She is silent. She says not a word. Her belly looked like it was going to burst. Lack of nutrition, parasites, and her roots never having been grounded in love. I'm still staring. She isn't the worst of the cases I have seen. It is her silence that has gotten to me. </div>
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The head of the region looks at me and says, "She is a challenge, but I think you are the right fit. If anyone can help her, it is you. Your homes are the best we have got. Your attention to her needs is exactly what it will take. You are our hope." Blinking, I scratch my head. I'm not sure of what he said. Our homes have so much room to improve. On any given day I can give notebook pages covered with ideas, staff members that I desire, activities to implement, I feel so inadequate. We are the best? How sad to hear! I know deep down we could be. It is the money and volunteers that I lack. </div>
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Still pondering and staring, "Is it a yes? Will you take her?" I ask for an hour to give a firm answer. Even after an all go from me, what will they say in the states? What will her new house mom say? After getting every one on board and deciding to take her, I want to go back and see if I can speak with her. He laughed at me. </div>
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Naive. Maybe. Not speaking does not mean she cannot hear. Not speaking does not mean she is not capable. </div>
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I wonder of the silence that greets me is a disability. I wonder if it is because her development was hindered. And sadly, I fear it is from the trauma that so many of these little girls face. I quickly remember the Keylas that didn't speak from shock. I pray that He intervenes. I hope we get to see a miracle take place. I wait for a change so drastic that we are not "their best", it will be so obvious that our home is where "He lives, He works!" Because when I look at how the pieces have come together, no man can take that glory.<br />
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~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5268739183417479121.post-73520972564940672282013-12-13T05:32:00.001-08:002013-12-13T05:32:12.314-08:00Why Are You Crying?<div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; ">It's been an emotional day for me. And several times I've had people look at me and ask what's wrong. I smile and tell them nothing bad. </div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; ">Then I got a text from a friend. He asked if it was a good cry or a bad cry. The truth is I didn't know how to respond.</div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; ">At the feeding station today I was thanking the girls that helped out since Iliana and Karina were absent yesterday. One of them hugged me and didn't let go. "The only thing we want in return is Christmas baskets are we getting our Christmas baskets?", she asked. Unsure how to respond I looked at her and smiled. "I have faith and I'm believing." What else could I say to her? </div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; ">I got in the car and I began to sob. If it were in my power each child would have a Christmas basket in the special present with their name on it and wrap. I feel brokenhearted. It isn't broken because I'm hurting and pain. Is broken with the passion and desire that I don't know what to do with. I don't know how to use it. I'm afraid to show it and share it. </div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; ">On days when everything I fought for and tried to make happen was stripped from my grip. On days when everything I'm working for seems to be working against me. And just when I started to lose hope. I see messages from followers sharing our story. I get messages from supporters sending in sponsorships. I get overwhelmed, as I am reminded, how everyone else cares too.</div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; ">I wonder what it was like for Mary. She was bursting at the seams ready to give life. A life that she would one day watch be taken. Everything she poured herself into. She poured her life, her being, her everything into this child. I wonder what it was like for her as she watched Him get taken away as painfully as He entered. </div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; ">A burden that is carried, not by one, but my many. My heart still aches. </div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; ">It aches for what I fight for. It aches for everything we so desire to change and make different. I wonder if Mary knew that the life she fought to bring into the world, the very work she was judged for. I wonder...</div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; ">Did the aching stop? Did it subside? Was she faced with the turmoil her entire life? Did she think she would die as she watched pieces of her very being have the air stripped from it? </div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; "><br></div><div style="font-family: Noteworthy; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.296875); -webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(130, 98, 83, 0.0976563); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(191, 107, 82, 0.496094); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; ">There is something so painfully similar to what has happened inside. And then Im reminded the feelings are shared. Im not alone. There is someone else there. Standing, fighting, caring by my side. I see it in your emails, your "shares", your texts, and your calls. I see you, I hear you, it gives me strength to move on. </div>~ Catringa ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/11825477578453895924noreply@blogger.com0